The best part of having a painful breakup in the public eye is that you can use the paparazzi to help stalk your ex when you go through your “intense” phase.

That’s what Lindsay Lohan seems to be doing after her split with DJ Samantha Ronson, anyway. According to TMZ, Lilo pulled up to a Los Angeles restaurant where Ronson was reportedly eating on Tuesday and asked the paps outside who the celebrity DJ was dining with and if it was a woman. After hearing that SamRo was indeed inside with a galpal, Lindsay looked sad and drove away. A source told TMZ that afterwards Lohan wound up driving to Ronson’s house and spending the night.

The drama is just more in the recent string of post-breakup shenanigans that would seem to indicate a possible reconciliation may be on the horizon for the tumultuous pair. E! News reported that Lohan said she and Ronson were “in touch” and are still friends.

While one source has told People that “Sam might eventually take Lindsay back ... It wouldn't surprise anyone,” another has said that Sam has "no plans to take her back." What are we supposed to believe???

Ronson reportedly is torn. A source close to the DJ told People a reunion would cause severe family issues. "Sam's family will literally lose all respect if she goes back to Lindsay, and that's what's convincing her things are really over," said the source. "Sam knows in her head, life is truly better off without Lindsay – even if her heart sometimes says otherwise."

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